I like my clothes the way I like my stocks: I buy and hold. Case in point: I’ve had these A.P.C. jeans for 8 years.
Eventually, a hole appeared behind the left knee. And then the crotch blew out. This is when most people would throw the jeans away. But I patched them instead.
When I bought them years ago they cost $140. Scratch that. Last month I bought a new pair for $195 (thanks, inflation). Sidenote: if you really love an item, buy multiples now so you can lock in today’s price. Just like buying a stock you plan on keeping for a while, it’s about the long-term strategy.
To most people, $140 sounds like an awful lot for a single pair of jeans. Why not get $20 jeans from Old Navy? They’re the same thing, they say. No, they’re not.
You see, Old Navy jeans might work for you, but I’m not shaped exactly like you. I’ve tried them all, from Old Navy to Madewell to Rag & Bone. Let’s be clear: I don’t buy into the idea that something’s automatically better just because it’s more expensive. So how does one assess a pair of jeans? It’s the FIT. Fit is different for every body. My friend and I are the same exact height, but we can try on the same pair of jeans, and they’ll look completely different.
Here’s the thing: Jeans are the hardest clothing item to get right. Especially for women. You could walk into a denim bar and be offered an array of options, but there are so many ways for them to go wrong:
- Too long
- Too short
- Too butt-flattening
- Too tight
- Too high/low waisted
Yeah, it’s like buying a house, but for your butt.
So, with endless options and potential pitfalls, here’s how a seemingly overpriced pair of jeans were a frugal purchase.
I Know What I Want
Buying jeans is not about randomly trying on jeans when the mood strikes and coming away with something that vaguely fits. You’ve got to know what you’re looking for. When you go in with a purpose and criteria, you’re more likely to come out with exactly what you need. Being frugal means discerning exactly what you want and need, and then prioritizing those needs.
For me, these were my top 3 priorities:
They need to be 100% cotton. In a sea of stretchy jeggings, this eliminates 99% of the jeans out there. Stretch jeans look fine on other people, but their clingy properties make my legs feel like encased sausages.
They need to be straight leg at the bottom. Jeans that are super skinny at the bottom don’t work for me and the shoes I wear. Again, this style I’m looking for is rarely available in the market.
They need to fit me perfectly in the waist. Waist-gap problems are the story of my life. Who wants to worry about bending over and giving people a view they never asked for?
I Wear Them All the Time
Being frugal means using the stuff you have. For the first six months after I bought them I’d wear them for months on end, and still wear them now on the weekends. I wear jeans 95% of the time, so they’re the workhorse of my wardrobe. How many people have jeans in their closet that they don’t wear? Buying things that don’t get used, no matter how cheap, is always a waste of money.
I Bought the Right Thing Once
At one point, they were the only pair of blue jeans I had for five years. Just the one. At the outset, $140 is a lot to pay for a single item of clothing, but considering I’ve worn them for 8 years, they’ve cost me a little under $20 a year. $20 a year for the perfect jeans? To me, that’s a damn deal. Being frugal is not always going for the cheapest option; it’s about holding out for what’s right for you. Every time I’ve settled for a cheaper option that I thought was “good enough” I’ve regretted it, no fail. Then I’d end up shopping MORE to find a better replacement. Settling for “good enough” created an endless cycle of bad shopping.
I Save Time
Jeans shopping is a barbaric form of punishment. There have been countless times where I’ve entered the mall super excited to look for jeans, and after trying on several pairs that didn’t fit, left feeling totally dejected. For this reason, I’m glad I haven’t had to “shop” for jeans in years. Being frugal means valuing your time so you can focus on the things that matter to you. Because these are my perfect jeans, I don’t have to waste energy finding new pairs to buy—taking the train to stores, researching new brands, dealing with crowds, trying on new pairs, or waiting in line to buy. If I need a new pair of blue jeans, I simply buy the same exact pairs.
I Value Them
We live in a disposable culture where clothes are cheap impulse buys, and when they bore us or show the slightest amount of wear we throw them away. As I mentioned before, when the jeans developed holes, I repaired them instead of throwing them out. I wash them cold with Woolite dark. I never put them in the dryer. I fold them nicely and put them away in their drawer. I never, ever toss them on the ground. I take care of them, because I respect them for how they’ve made my life easier.
Frugality is about appreciating what you have. And part of appreciating what you have is not settling for what’s “good enough,” but buying the right things in the first place, even if the price is a little higher. I’ve never regretted a perfect purchase, no matter the price.
What’s something you buy that most people think is a splurge but you think is actually frugal?
Image: The Luxe Strategist